Pamela Kay Stoops 61 of Lafayette, IN, died at 10:30 p.m. January 26, 2011 at her home. Born November 27, 1949 in Frankfort, IN to Russell Jr & Donna Sue (Sneathen) Cox. She married Richard V. Stoops on October 20, 1998 and he survives. Mrs. Stoops was a 1967 graduate of Clinton Central High School and a 1968 graduate of Lafayette Beautician Academy. She was born and raised in Clinton County, later lived near Forest & Michigantown before moving to Lafayette in 1997. Formerly a beautician, she was also a teachers aid at Clinton Central for 17 ½ years, secretary at Purdue University from 1997 until retiring in June 2002 due to her health. She was a member of the First Assembly of God in Lafayette, was in the Lafayette Breast Cancer Support Group, Relay for Life, Angels with Grace Team, the Cancer Survivor for the Year for Oncology Nurses Organization in 2006 and she was the BMW Ultimate Drive Local Hero in 2007.
Visitation and Services
Services will be 3 p.m. Saturday, January 29, 2011 at Goodwin Funeral Home. Visitation will begin at 1 p.m. until time of service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Green Lawn Memorial Park. Memorial donations may be made to the Community Cancer Network; P.O. Box 4499, Lafayette, IN 47903, envelopes will be available.
Survived by:
Husband: Richard V. Stoops of Lafayette
Parents: Russell Jr & Donna Sue Cox of Frankfort
Daughter: Candace Coulter (Todd) of Story City, IA
Son: Chad Weaver of Michigantown
Step Son: Mikel Stoops (Pam) of Lenexa, KS
Step Daughter: Ronda McCollum of Camden, OH
Brother: Jeff Cox (Kathy) of Michigantown
Grandchildren: Jessi & Jerod Howe and Mattye Coulter
Step Grandchildren: Scott, Edward and Natalie Stoops and Corey & Eric McCollum
I’m sorry to hear about Pam. We all loved her very much.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWe will greatly miss our wonderful friend Pam. We met through the Breast Cancer Support Group where many of us struggled, but found love, hope and strength in our friendship.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTodd and Candy Coulter
We are very sorry to hear about your mother, our prays will be with you.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleCande, Todd, Jessi, Jerod and Mattye,
I am so sorry for your loss. Cande, your mom was such a blessing and always had a cheerful outlook on life. May God give you all the strength you need during this time.
Love ya all.
Lora McKee
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI was so saddened to hear of Pam’s passing. I had not seen her in many years but we were school mates for many years. She was a wonderful lady and sounds like she fought a good fight. I am glad she is at peace now but my prayers are with all of her family. I know she will be watching over you.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleA truly wonderful person has left our mortal existence to be embraced in love by Jesus. To know her was to know the abundant love she felt for her husband, Rick (another wonderful person), her children, stepchildren and all their grandchildren. She was remarkable for the strength she showed while dealing with her cancer.
May God bless her husband, Rick, children, stepchildren, grandchildren and all those knew her, may they find peace that Pam is now in a better place.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWe have, in the past, prayed for GOD’s strength for Pam and Rick. We will continue, in the future, to pray for strength and comfort for Rick and the entire family as they enter this time of grief. We also pray that this will be a time to celebrate not only the fact that she safe at home with the FATHER but also to celebrate the many happy memories that she has left with us.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTo the Family of Pam: I had the honor of meeting and knowing Pam through her work with Relay for Life and the Angels with Grace team. Pam was a constant inspiration to all of us at Relay and her spirit and enthusiasm will live on with each of us. She will be missed and my prayers to you during this emotionally trying time.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo Sorry to hear Pam lost her battle! She certainly was a fighter!
We are going to miss her!!!!!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you
and your family!
Lisa Christopher
Relay for Life and Strides committee member
and friend
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Facebook Twitter GoogleRick,
Pam was truly a testament to what we all should be; a fighter and yet gracious in the face of adversity. I shall always remember her and I know that she is now rejoicing with the saints that her battle is over and a new day has begun for her. May you be comforted in knowing that you were instrumental in all that she did for the community and for those of us who are ranked in the ‘survivor’ category.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry for your loss, may God be with her and bless the family too. Janis Smith Kight
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI am very sorry to hear about her passing, Pam was a very special person in my life. There was always a special place in my heart for Pam. Cande i am so very sorry for your loss.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry to hear of your loss, first your mom and now your daughter. Sus & JR our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We know that they are in a better place!
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTo the Cox family, Candie, and Chad: So sorry to hear of your loss. I have so many fond memories of Pam. I remember her walking a half mile through very deep snow to bring us groceries during the blizzard of ’78. She was a very special lady and will be missed by many.
Dick and Kay Dunn
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