Nellie “Betty” Elizabeth Underwood

November 23, 2020

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Nellie “Betty” Elizabeth Underwood, 87, of Frankfort, died November 23, 2020 at her home.  She was born October 25, 1933 in Indianapolis, IN. to Charles Calvin & Ruth Elizabeth (Sheets) Anson.  She married Paul E. Underwood on August 17, 1951 in Frankfort, IN. and he survives.

Betty was a 1951 graduate of Frankfort High School and became a certified dental assistant in 1959.  She worked as a dental assistant for Dr. Robert E. Huffer and Dr. Jose Ramos.  She was a sheriff matron for 8 years and worked at the Salvation Army for 20 years.  She was a lifelong Frankfort resident and a member of the St. Matthew United Methodist Church. Betty was the choir director for Trinity United Methodist Church from 1978-1999, a United Methodist Women Officer for 10 years, a member of F.O.P. Auxiliary, where she was a state officer in 1979-1980, member of Ladies of the Moose, and Frankfort Motorcycle Club.

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Visitation and Services

Visitation will be 1-3 p.m. Friday, November 27, 2020 at Goodwin Funeral Home, 200 S. Main St., Frankfort. A private family service will follow at 3 p.m. at the funeral home. This service will be live-streamed, to participate, the link will be available on our website. Burial will be in Bunnell Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to St. Matthew United Methodist Church. Out of respect for the health, safety, and comfort of all in attendance, guests will be expected to adhere to current CDC guidelines regarding appropriate social distancing and the wearing of masks.

Survived by:

Husband: Paul E. Underwood of Frankfort, 4 Daughters: Ruth Weidner of Frankfort, Kathryn (Mike) Myers of Frankfort, Paula (George) Russell of Lafayette, Merie (Bob) Sharp of Frankfort, 9 Grandchildren: Tanya Weidner, Geoff (Paula) Weidner, Michele (Dan) Bushman, Adam (Leah) Myers, Jason (Jillian) Russell, Christopher Russell, Sam Russell, Keegan Sharp, and Andrew (Alyssa) Sharp and 16 Great Grandchildren: Mason and Jack Weidner, Dylan, Devin and Drew Bushman, Quintin, Xavier, Kaylee and Trey Frazier, Jaden, Khalin and Maddie Russell, Dylan and Ashton Heath and Benjamin and Harrison Sharp.

Preceded by:

She was preceded in death by her parents, 3 sisters, Joan, Mabel and Beanie, son-in-law, Tom Weidner, 3 grandsons, Corey, Craig and Jacob and a great grandson, Dalton.

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31 Condolences for “Nellie “Betty” Elizabeth Underwood”

  1. Linda Dinkeldein November 23, 2020 at 3:51 pm

    Paul and girls so sorry about your mom’s death. She’s been something special to me through my whole life. Her smile was so amazing, so kind and loving to me. Always thought that she would be a good mom for me.

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    • Paula Russell November 26, 2020 at 6:28 am

      Thank you for your kind words. My mom’s smile was infectious. Looking back through pictures we realized how often she smiled and it has give us comfort. She was a great mom and we have discovered not to just us , but to many.

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  2. Chris Greeno November 23, 2020 at 5:29 pm

    Ruth and family, so sorry for your loss. I will always have fond memories of your Mom. Sending my thoughts and prayers. Love, Chris,

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  3. Jim and Julie Doepken November 23, 2020 at 5:48 pm

    Our hearts hurt for your loss, but we know there is rejoicing in Heaven. She was an amazing woman and will always be part of the memories we hold dear from our short time in Frankfort. May you be blessed with sweet comfort and peace as you remember a life well-lived, full of love, light, and laughter.

    We love you.

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  4. Ron and Jennifer Cree November 23, 2020 at 5:57 pm

    Paula. I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I didn’t know her, but you talked so lovingly about her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Jennifer Cree

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  5. Heather and Jaden November 23, 2020 at 6:46 pm

    We will miss you so much. We remember all the amazing things spent with you. We love you old Grammy.

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  6. Brian Prickett November 23, 2020 at 8:16 pm

    What a wonderful woman Betty was. She and Paul touched my life at every low point and helped me change my life for the better. I owe so much to them for that. Very sad, my condolences to the families and community for this huge loss.

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  7. Brian Bohm November 23, 2020 at 8:46 pm

    Underwood Family, so sorry for your loss! Was a neighbor of Betty’s on Paris Street. She would often visit at my Mom’s Flower Shop (Joan’s Flower Shop). Betty was a gracious lady. Prayers and thoughts to the family at this time.

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  8. Debbie Ford November 23, 2020 at 10:00 pm

    Paul and family I’m so sorry to hear about Betty. I had the pleasure of working with her at Dr. Ramos office for several years. I learned a lot from her. What a wonderful person she was and such a great Christian. God got a good one today. My heart is hurting for you all. May your memories help your sorrow during these difficult times.

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    • Paula Russell November 28, 2020 at 8:29 am

      Thank you Debbie. She loved you. You guys had so many laughs at the office and shared so many special moments of your lives. Thank you for reaching out to us during this difficult time.
      Paula

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  9. Butch Huffer November 23, 2020 at 10:10 pm

    So sorry for your loss, she always had a smile and she will be missed. My prayers are with you. God Bless.

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  10. Jeanie and Gary Thompson November 23, 2020 at 10:33 pm

    We send all of you our condolences for the loss of your Mother, Betty. She was such a bright light wherever she went. We loved her smile and she always made you feel better. She will be missed by many.

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  11. Kim Wiles November 23, 2020 at 10:59 pm

    So sorry for your loss. She was my choir director at Trinity will miss her.

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  12. Timothy Porter November 24, 2020 at 12:18 am

    Rest in peace Betty.

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  13. Carole Ferris November 24, 2020 at 7:51 am

    Betty was my “choir buddy” at St. Matthew for many years. We loved to harmonize all the hymns! She always had a big hug for me, and I will miss her sweet spirit, loving smile and her love for God.
    R.I.P. my friend.
    Carole Ferris

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  14. Phil & Gloria Crum November 24, 2020 at 8:04 am

    Sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. May you have beautiful memories. With sincere sympathies.

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  15. Nancy Kehrer November 24, 2020 at 9:19 am

    Sincere sympathy to all of Betty’s family. She and I had some wonderful times together at Dr. Ramos’ office. Although we also worked very hard and maybe had a few tiffs! She was a fine Christian lady who loved her children dearly. Keep your good memories in your heart.

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  16. Steve Goodwin November 24, 2020 at 9:25 am

    During this sad time, one can only think of the joy and laughter that your loving mother brought you. Losing a mom is probably the hardest thing that one can endure, please know that we are praying with you and Bobby for you loss.

    Sincerely,
    Steve and Shelly Goodwin

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  17. Deborah E. King November 24, 2020 at 11:42 am

    Paul and girls, you know I loved Betty as a mother after mom passes. My heart was broken as I will not be able to visit you and Betty. She’ll kept me up to date. I have been in hospital for 2 months. Perhaps that is a thing to remember the fun we all had sitting on the wall. God bless you all in this hard time.

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    • Paula Russell November 28, 2020 at 8:31 am

      You are in our thoughts and prayers for healing. You were a special neighbor to my parents. They loved you and loved Dean as well. Thank you for your care and concern for our family. It has been a difficult week, but mom is reunited in heaven with so many. Love, Paula

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  18. Jan Kersey November 24, 2020 at 1:43 pm

    So very sorry to read of the passing of your loved one. Betty was a jewel and so caring. Loved her presence in the pew in front of me at church for Sunday service. Tanya I know how much she meant to you and know you will so miss her. My prayers go out to all of you at this very sad time. She is now at peace and in no pain. Love, Jan

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  19. Brenda Killmer Ricker November 24, 2020 at 2:17 pm

    Dear Ruth and family,
    I am so sorry to learn about your Mom. She was a wonderful woman. I always loved seeing her when I came over to your house when we were little. She also talked me down through many dental appointments! I am praying for you and your family.
    Love,
    Brenda Killmer Ricker

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  20. Jane Rodkey November 24, 2020 at 6:00 pm

    I’m so sorry for your family’s loss . She was a wonderful lady.

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  21. Gloria Hite November 24, 2020 at 7:59 pm

    So sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to the family.

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  22. Patty Zink November 25, 2020 at 8:42 am

    I am so sorry for your loss of Betty. She was a very special person. Loved her smile. Prayers to all your family.

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  23. Jane Walker November 25, 2020 at 10:28 am

    To the family of Betty, She was very special lady. We met Betty at Trinity United Methodist Church. She was dedicated to serving the Lord. We very much enjoyed getting to know and spend time with Paula and Maria. We loved having Maria in the youth group. I know she will be missed but she is already singing and directing the choir in heaven. Very much love to Paul and the family.

    Jane and John Walker

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  24. Anita (Carney) and Jerry Bradley November 25, 2020 at 10:43 am

    We are so sorry for your loss. We saw her the most at the Salvation Army where she always had a smile on her face. May sweet memories help you get through this. Jerry and Anita Bradley

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  25. George Irwin November 25, 2020 at 1:20 pm

    Betty and family were great people and I lived in the same neighborhood as they did. Use to hang out over there and Betty wanted me to eat every time I was over there. Her and Paul were a great impersonation to me as I grew up and helped me do some right things in my life. She will be sadly missed by a lot of people.

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  26. Susan Calloway November 25, 2020 at 7:10 pm

    Ruth,
    So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Deepest condolences.
    Susan (Clark) Calloway

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  27. Paula Russell November 26, 2020 at 6:37 am

    So many kind thoughts, memories and moments that you have all shared of our mom. Thanks to all of you for sharing with our family. Your thoughts and memories have provided us comfort during this time of grief. These past few months have been hard for our family and especially our mom. We rejoice knowing she is in heaven with many loved ones who have gone before her. We just need to learn how to navigate our lives here on earth without her. This is going to be difficult for all. May God’s blessing be with all of you and may His love provide comfort.

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  28. Deborah R. Baker November 27, 2020 at 9:52 am

    Oh my I just now read where Betty passed away, took my breath away, I’m so so sorry to read this, I went to church with her and her family at Trinity, a very very sweet and kind lady, seen her in the last year when her grandson gave his testimony at New Beginnings Church, great lady and great family, I’m so sorry, she will be missed.

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