Cynthia Elaine McGraw 65, rural Frankfort, passed away December 5, 2014. She was born in Lafayette, IN in 1949 to Marvin & Phyllis (Cripe) Cooley. Cindy married William J. McGraw in Goodland, IN. They were married over 45 years. Together they owned and operated Knox Flower Shop in Frankfort. She was a member of the St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Frankfort, and a loving mother of 7 children and loving grandmother of 15 grandchildren.
Visitation and Services
Visitation will be 4-7 p.m. Wednesday, December 10, 2014 at Goodwin Funeral Home. A funeral mass will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Frankfort.
Survived by:
Husband: William J. McGraw, 6 Daughters: Vanessa Beard-Ely (Husband Daniel), Naomi Ferrel (Husband Jon), Carmen Ruch (Husband Craig), Danielle Swem (Husband Lee), Erin Joyner (Husband Brian), Cynthia DeFazio (Husband Anthony), 1 Son: Nathan McGraw (Wife Amandala), Mother: Phyllis Cooley, 2 Brothers: Michael Cooley & David Cooley, 1 Sister: Jan Kleingartner and 15 Grandchildren.
Preceded by:
She was preceded in death by a brother, Ronald Cooley, sister Kathy Wing, and her father Marvin.
Jon and Naomi, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss! Our prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Tina Crum
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill,
My heart aches for you and your children. I may not be able to attend the services but, my prayers are with you all at this so very sorrowful time. Love, Julie
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of all of you during this time.
Stacie Clark Kurowski and family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleOur thoughts and prayers to all of you. What a beautiful and sweet lady. Hugs to all. Sincerely Jim Kay Kelley and Kelsey Isenhower.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy heart just aches for you. Bill, so sorry for your loss, she was a beautiful and nice person. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleErin and family I am so so sorry for your loss. Prayers to all of you in this difficult time.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThe McGraw Family –
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Cindy was a wonderful woman and a blessing to all who knew her.
-With love, Jason & Laura
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWe are so sad to hear the news of Cindy passing. She holds a special place in my heart for all the many flower arrangements and great conversations we had.
May God help you get through this.
Charlie and Sue Fink
We are in Florida so will not be at the calling
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Facebook Twitter GoogleJon and Naomi , Ashley & Mitchell: We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We are praying for God’s comfort and peace for you and your family at this time. Again, our prayers are with you. Jeff & Vicki Dorn
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Facebook Twitter GoogleJon & Naomi, Ashley & Mitchell: We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mom was a very special person. We are praying for you and your family for God’s comfort and peace. Again, our prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Jeff & Vicki Dorn
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry for the loss of your loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Sherry Lunsford and Family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleVanessa, Morgan, Camden
Words cannot express my deepest sympathy due to the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. She was blessed with such a wonderful family and as well, blessed her family with her love. My thoughts are with you!
Jim
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill and family,
I can’t imagine what you all are going through. My heart is so heavy for you and your families. I pray daily that God surrounds you all with his love, comfort and most of all his understanding today and always. Sending our deepest sympathy along with prayers.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry to hear of your loss. She made flowers come alive.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleBill, and family We are so sorry for your loss. When I would go to the shop or see her out, Her smile would just light up the room. I love the little chat we had. She will be dearly miss She was and still an angel. Sincerely Todd and Sandy Lowery
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMcGraw family,
I am so very deeply sorry for your loss. Erin and I were in the same CCD classes growing up and I always remember your beautiful family at church, especially around the holidays growing up. Cindy was a wonderful, sweet, and very caring woman. My husband and I were married 4 1/2 years ago and she did our flowers and they were truly beautiful!! Almost a week ago she laid out a grave blanket on my sons grave out at Bunnell Cemetery and it looks gorgeous!! She had a true gift of decorating that is for sure. I will never forget her and I know that she will live on inside each of you and everyone that she knew. I will be thinking and praying for you all today and in the difficult days ahead.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy thoughts and Prayers for your family and loved ones during this time, as well as the days ahead.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleJon and Naomi so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. Sincerely The Longfellows.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry for your loss, Cindy was a precious person. Praying for your family.
Janna, Nicole and Lane Petty
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Tracy Wayt Berry & family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTo the McGraw family,
Your mother was such a joy to work with at Knox’s when our own hearts were grieving. She had such a creative touch and such a gentle way about her. I am praying for your entire family and pray that God will comfort you through the times ahead.
Prayers,
Denise Fox
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill and family…I can’t tell you how very sorry we are for your loss. Cindy was such a kind spirit and I am very glad to have known her. She will be sorely missed in our community. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers. ~~The Hromas family~~
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Facebook Twitter GoogleAt a time of deep sorrow I hope you can find comfort in the fact that Mrs. McGraw touched so many lives in a positive way. I only have fond memories of her as Nate and I grew up together. She was an incredible lady.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Brian and Melissa Adams
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThoughts and Prayers to your entire family. God Bless!
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo very sorry for your loss. Cindy was a great person and she will be missed. May your memories of her help you through this difficult time.
Marie Haug & family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo very sorry to hear if your loss. Cynthia always went above and beyond my expectations when making flower arrangements for me. Prayers for you and yours during this difficult time.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleVanessa and Daniel, we are so very sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Sincerely Paul, Elva, Naomi, Aaron and Alanna.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMIcGraw family,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that this community is so sad and upset about your loss. Cindy was one of the nicest people I have ever came across, and everyone else says that too. She will be missed by many. May God put his arms around you at this time of need. I prayed for your family & friends.
Vickie Ritter
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWhat a beautiful woman Cindy was. Growing up at St. Mary’s and seeing you all at church on Sunday mornings was a true testimony to your mothers love for all of you. She was just in our shop getting her haircut on Wednesday… Girls I must tell you she was letting her hair grow out for you, Bill she was telling us that you were giving her a hard time for getting her haircut “again”. We loved hearing stories of you all. Cindy took such good care of our family when we lost my dad, for that I am forever grateful. Much love and prayers to all of.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTo the McGraw family, we are so sorry for your loss. Cindy was such a kind, sweet friend and wonderful person. She was such a special spirit and brought sunshine to all who knew her. May God keep his arms around you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI am sorry to hear about Cindy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I remember the first time we met. With our kids going to school together we seem to see each other often. After they bought Knox’s. I seen them when they delivered to FM. It was a pleasure know Cindy. She will missed. God bless and Love to all of you.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThis picture captures Cindy perfectly~she always had a big smile on her face! I had the pleasure of working with Cindy at CP and my sons, Brent and Brad were in school with Danielle and Naomi. Thinking of you with sympathy as you celebrate the life and mourn the loss.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleVanessa and Daniel,
Sorry to hear about your loss. In sincere sympathy. Gloria and Phil Crum
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Facebook Twitter GoogleBill: There are no words to express the sadness we felt after learning of Cindy’s passing. Her love of God set such wonderful examples for us as a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. What a blessing and privilege it was for us to know and spend time with her. We are currently out of state and will not be able to attend the services, but know that our love and prayers are with you and your family. Feel the strength, comfort, and closeness of God’s arms around you. All our Love. Connie & Phil
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Erin and family, may you find comfort in your memories and the love of family and friends. With heartfelt sympathy, Carolyn
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry for the loss of a wife, mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother. My prayers go with all of you.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTo the family and friends of Cindy,
In 2009 Cindy helped me with my wedding flowers and was so incredibly kind and patient with me, because I had no idea what I wanted. I couldn’t have asked for more beautiful flowers on my special day. I just want to say thank you for sharing her amazing talent with me and the entire community of Frankfort. She will be missed. Praying for comfort and peace for the family.
Sincerely, Jessica Robbins
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThe few times that I met Cynthia she was very kind. May God bless her family in their time of need and guide her through her journey to heaven
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Facebook Twitter GoogleBill….I am so sorry to hear of the loss of you wife and friend. I will be covering the family in prayers during this very difficult time. I will be praying for God’s peace & comfort to be with you and your children.
Nancy Frazier
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThis is such a shocking and tragic news about Cynthia that I am naively hoping that none of this is true. I remember Cynthia and her sweet jovial smile as if it was yesterday. I am deeply saddened by this untimely demise of Cynthia and my prayers and thoughts go out to entire McGraw family, especially to my dear friend Vanessa and Daniel Ely.
Sincerely,
Shaun Sarin
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear McGraw Family, I am so sorry to hear this tragic loss of life, I myself was in a motorcycle accident six weeks or so in almost the same spot. I don’t know why God allows some of us to live and others pass on, only that God wanted Mrs. McGraw in heaven at that very moment! Ill be praying for the family, sincerely, April Heller
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThe McGraw Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mom was a very special lady that always had a smile on her face and brightened the room. Remember all the good times. Sending thoughts and prayer to you all.
Hugs for you all,
Mark and Stacy Lane
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Facebook Twitter GoogleTo all of Cynthia’s family, I loved her & I will always remember her just as she is in the picture in the notice of her death. She always had that beautiful smile & always ready with her laugh at a moments notice. She was so kind to everyone. I for one will truly always miss her. My heart aches for all of you. Such a void can not be filled. But I envy all of you of the wonderful memories you must have with her. Bill, My prayers & thoughts are with you. To her mother, as a mother that has lost a child I feel so sad for you’re loss so much. I know your hearts are broken, I pray prayers will help you get through this sad time, Knowing above all else she has gone HOME to be in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ & some day she will be there waiting for all of us again with that beautiful smile & open arms. Peace for all of you.
I am so happy to have had her be in my life time even for just the little time we had together. She was truly so very special. My prayers are with all of you. Mary Jane Weaver
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThe McGraw Family,
Cindy was a wonderful, caring person with a true talent for flowers and making you feel special. She took such good care of me over the years and when Marc passed she was incredibly understanding and genuine. She just always knew what I was looking for. She would always help and bailed us out a few times with last minute flowers for events. Whenever I stopped in it was nice to catch up and hear stories of the kids and grandkids and she would always ask about my family, remembering previous conversations and asking for updates. She truly was a beautiful person.
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this incredibly difficult time.
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Dan and I are so sorry for your loss. Cindy was a beautiful woman she was a blessing to all. Ours prayer are with you and your family.
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We are so sorry about the loss of your loved one. Cindy was a blessing to all that she crossed paths with. She was a wonderful and caring woman. Our prayers and thoughts are with each and everyone of you.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry for all of you in your loss. Cindy was an amazing woman! I enjoyed working with her here at Clinton Prairie and she did such a fine job on flowers for my daughter and myself when I remarried. She loved her family so much! She will be truly missed!
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Facebook Twitter GoogleBill – I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family as well as prayers and comfort. May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleBill,
Bob and Kathy called me about the accident. How very sorry I am. May God be with you and Cindy. My memories and prayers.
Tom
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Facebook Twitter GoogleCarmen,
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Rosie
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Facebook Twitter GoogleFor the McGraw family – I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Erin and family – I’m so sorry for your great loss. It sounds like Mrs. McGraw was an amazing lady, and I hope the love of your friends, family, and neighbors will surround and sustain you during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy sincerest sympathies to you and your family. I will pray for strength for you during this difficult time. Your lovely family will always support you. Sincerely, Nancy
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI’m so sorry for your loss. Many prayers for the family.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy heart goes out to the family. If ever there was an angel, it was Cindy. Her beautiful smile and kindness will never be forgotten. Missing Nancy as well. So sad, the world has lost a beautiful person.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear McGraw Family,
I was so very sorry to hear about your loss of Cindy. My prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Megan Myers
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWe are praying for your whole family during this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Krieg Family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleCooley and McGraw Families,
Our hearts ache for the loss of your daughter, sister, mother, wife, and grandmother. May God hold you close and wrap you in his arms as you mourn Cindy and hold tight to the memories. Prayers to you all for peace and healing.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSincere condolences to all of Cindy’s family, Aunt Phyl, siblings Jan, Dave, and Mike and their spouses, her husband Bill, and her children and grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Cindy was a wonderful cousin to have in my life. I have many fond memories of visiting with her family while growing up. I was honored to be an attendant in her and Bill’s wedding, a privilege I will always hold dear. She was a beautiful, talented person with a loving heart and soul. With love, sympathy, and care…Cousin Cheri Gottfried
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Facebook Twitter GooglePhyl Cooley and the McGraw family, My heart has been broken since Phyl called me. I know the pain you are feeling. Just know that my prayers and love are with you and God is holding you right now. Love to you. Joy
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy heart breaks for you Bill. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWe are so sad to hear of Cindy’s passing. Jim and I always enjoyed talking to her at her business. She was a beautiful person inside and out. She was so proud of her family and loved you all dearly. Our Love, Thoughts and Prayers are with you all at this time. First Thessalonians 4:13-18.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI am so sorry for your loss. Cindy was a sweet, loving, caring person. I started working at Clinton Prairie in the 3rd grade as an aide. Cindy was the one who “showed me the ropes” . She always had a smile on her face and talked often of her family. Will be praying for all of you through this rough time.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleI am so sorry that we lost a wonderful person and such a talented person. She did our mother’s funeral flowers and we were so pleased with them. I work at Paul Phillippe Resource Center and we get flowers to sell in the summer from them. They both are very endearing people and Cindy will truly be missed. So sorry for the families loss she was a great person.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Carmen and family,
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are to hear about your loss. We will forever remember Cindy’s smile and warm nature. We hope you take some comfort celebrating all the things she accomplished. She raised an amazing family and she’ll be proud to observe how all of you come together to give her a sweet goodbye.
Our love and prayers are with all of you,
Gloribel and David Pichler
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMcGraw family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I graduated with Nathan and I have never met anyone else in his family but hearing this news has even brought much heart ache to myself. Just from reading all of the posts that friends and family have made below I can see that she was a beautiful lady inside and out. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. – Toni Mahn & family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleNo words can heal the pain you are feeling during this difficult time in your lives. I hope that you can find
comfort in knowing that so many people cared for Cindy and appreciate all the nice things she did during
her time here. We hope that you can draw strength from your wonderful family to get the support you
need face this together. Thinking of all of you.
Amy and Scott Mennen and family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleErin, Brian, & McGraw Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear about the loss of such a special person. Our thoughts and prayers are with your during this difficult time.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Rob, Laura, and Callum
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Facebook Twitter GoogleCindy was most faithful at daily Mass here at St. Mary’s. She and I last smiled warmly at one another on Thursday morning, Dec. 4. Cindy had just received Holy Communion and then I shared with her the cup of the Most Precious Blood. My heart is broken for your loss. Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May the angels lead her into paradise.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleSo sorry for your loss. The memorial pictures are so beautiful. Thinking of you. With love Aunt Mar
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill & family,
On behalf of the entire (extended) Sanchez family in New Mexico and Arizona, we would like to express our deepest sympathy for the loss of our niece/cousin Cynthia.
– Newt & Beverly Sanchez, Santa Rosa, NM
– Lawrence & Kelly Hurt, Animas, NM
– Tracy Lucero, Las Cruces, NM
– Curt & Shelley Sanchez, Rio Rancho, NM
– Darby Hoffman, Las Cruces, NM
– Miles & Jennifer Sanchez, Scottsdale, AZ
– Britt Sanchez, Scottsdale, AZ
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Facebook Twitter GoogleThe McGraw Family,
My heart aches for all of you. So sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers to all of you during this time and the days ahead.
Gina Mundell
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Cindy’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Gwen Mitchell
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill, Jon, Naomi and family:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Cindy was such a wonderful, caring lady that loved her family very much. I really enjoyed and will always cherish the time I got to spend with her at the flower shop. She was always so encouraging. I pray that God gives you all peace and comfort during this very difficult time! I know Cindy will be missed by so many. I am so sorry that I will not be able to attend the visitation but know that I am thinking and praying for you all.
Renee Simmons
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Facebook Twitter GoogleVanessa and family, we are so sorry for your loss. We are sending comforting thoughts and prayers to you. Please know that you will remain in our prayers in the days to come. We hope that you find comfort and peace in your memories of your beautiful mother and grandmother.
Love to all,
Meg (Seager) and family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleErin, Brian, and family – My heart goes out to all of you right now during this most difficult time. Praying for you and yours. Sincerely, Sally Nieman
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Facebook Twitter GoogleOur very sincerest and heartfelt condolences to the McGraw and Cooley families from the McCarty family. May our heavenly Father God himself reach down and wrap His loving arms around each one of you at this time of such a tragic loss. Your video tribute was the most beautiful one we’ve ever seen, conveying the love and joy that surrounded Cyndy during her life here on this earth. Our love and prayers are with you!
Delbert and Pat McCarty
Glenn and Linda McCarty Berg Family
Susan McCarty Family
Bob and Sandra McCarty Bevill Family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill,
We were very sorry to hear about your loss. Our niece Missy told Deb about what happened today after mass. We offer our most sincere condolences.
Nick & Debi O’Neil
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDaniel and Vanessa,
Our family’s thoughts and prayers are with your family. Tragedy is always a hard thing to understand. I invite you to read a book that helped me through tragedy, The Shack. It offers some insight on how to keep a healthy relationship with God, even through the toughest of times. I pray that your family can find peace in knowing that Cynthia has gone home to be with the good Lord.
With Love,
Jeremy Mounce and family
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Facebook Twitter GoogleJust wanted to say how sorry I was to hear of Cindy’s passing. She made many wonderful flower arrangements for me and my family. I know we never met face to face but we talked frequently over the phone when I was placing my orders. You might remember talking to me when I’d request the card to say from the “Thundering Herd”. Know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Gayle Rice
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Facebook Twitter GoogleErin and Brian,
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts – praying for you and your family to find the strength to get through this difficult time. Please take care.
Nidhi and Subodh
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy heart is so sad for you all in hearing about Cindy. Please know that our prayers are with you all. Love, Betty and Gene Gibbs (cousin)
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Facebook Twitter GoogleErin, I am so sad to hear of your mom’s sudden passing. My condolences, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleVanessa, Daniel and family, our thoughts and covering prayers of comfort and strength are toward you and with you now and we are believing for God’s glorious Grace and Peace to fill you and sustain you as you are filled with loving memories and the eternal hope of redemption we have in Jesus Christ. All our love to you all!
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Facebook Twitter GoogleBill I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish I could have made it down but the doctors won’t allow me to drive yet. Just know I am thinking of you and your family and sending prayers to Cindy.
Craig Whaley
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Facebook Twitter GoogleVanessa and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I am sending my thoughts and prayers to you. May you and your family find comfort during this time of grief and lean on one another.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleWe are so sorry for your loss. To lose a mother is unimaginable, and we can’t fathom the pain you must be experiencing right now. You are in our hearts, our thoughts, and our prayers. We pray that you can find comfort and peace, and we are sending all our love your way.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleDear Bill and Family~
I was so saddened by your unexpected and tragic loss. I had the pleasure of Cindy working with me in my flower shop for several years, and I do know how much all of you will miss your dear, dear link of your family.
I am sorry that I wasn’t in the country at the time of her passing, but know that my heart aches for you.
Heather (Brown) Wright of Heather’s Flowers
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMy heart is heavy with sorrow. I met Cindy when we both worked at Clinton Prairie. I always enjoyed talking with her, so vivacious and cheerful. I am so very very sorry for the loss to so many.
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Facebook Twitter GoogleMcGraw family,
I am sorry to hear the loss of a wonderful woman. My prayers are with you an the family.
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